I'm soooo excited! My best friend from college just found out that she is pregnant! She is going to be such a fabulous mom!! I know she and her husband wanted to wait a couple years because they kinda struggling financially but ppl do what they need to do to survive. And I know that they are gonna be such great parents and I know that they are sooo happy! I wish I could be there during her pregnancy and help her pick baby stuff out! That is so much fun! I wish she lived closer to me!!! I secretly wish that all my best friends could live near me and that we would all be pregnant at the same time and raise our kids together....hahaha kinda a far out fantasy right now huh?? And when the heck did I get to the stage where my fantasy was about pregnancies?? LOL...wow...how time changes things!
Cody and I have talked about having a baby...but we have decided to wait a couple more years. So we'll be 28 years old....I will have finished my masters degree and we could have a few years together as a married couple just being us and having fun without any major responsibilities. But I can't lie....the baby hormones are totally kickin' in on me! I want one SOOOOOOO bad!!! I think Cody will make such a WONDERFUL daddy! Cody keeps talking about our child all the time too. He even said the other day that he believes that he thinks about our future kids more than I do. I don't think that is possible. Everyone at work thinks that when he gets home from deployment that we're gonna have one soon after. hmm...who knows....I really do go back & forth all the time:
Pros about having a baby now:
1. Adorable
2. I'm totally ready
3. Cody and I would be sooo happy
4. I love families
5. Pig tales and ribbons
6. Cute button noses
Pros about waiting now:
1. Cody and I have more time as a couple
2. Will be more financially secure
3. Don't have to worry about a huge responsibility
4. Can travel & see more places then settle down
Ok....so I'm starting to make up some random pro's about waiting hahaha.....so I'm really thinking I want one. The only thing that actually makes me want to wait is the fact that I want to be able to spend time as a married couple together and be spoiled and spend time together...I hope that doesn't sound selfish...cause it really isn't...I think it's just cause Cody is deployed so I just want him all to myself right now...give it a couple weeks after he gets home and I'll want to pop out a baby hehe Wow, I'm just rambling! But I just want to say that I can't wait to be pregnant. I can't wait to have a baby with my wonderful husband! I can't wait to have a family of my very own and to start cute little family traditions!! Babies are sooo adorable!!! Ok, I'm done haha
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